Comments on: Attraction http://www.jordansummers.com/2007/03/01/attraction/ Romance Writer & Urban Fantasy Novelist Mon, 01 Dec 2008 18:00:12 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: Jordan http://www.jordansummers.com/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10381 Jordan Sun, 04 Mar 2007 01:25:20 +0000 http://208.73.34.214/~jordansu/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10381 Jo, LOL! That's great. :D The bathroom was nice, wasn't it? ;) Glad you dropped into Tokyo for a visit. :) Jo, LOL! That’s great. :D The bathroom was nice, wasn’t it? ;) Glad you dropped into Tokyo for a visit. :)

]]> By: Jo Leigh http://www.jordansummers.com/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10380 Jo Leigh Sat, 03 Mar 2007 21:20:21 +0000 http://208.73.34.214/~jordansu/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10380 This has nothing to do with this post, but I had to tell you - I had this incredible Tokyo dream last night that I know is totally because of you. My friend and I went to this really inexpensive Tokyo hotel where the rooms were actually shelves cut out of a mountain. In another room, there was a huge wall of different kinds and sizes of silk pajamas, all hung up till they were out of sight on the wall. Oh, and we were late for a tea ceremony. But my friend decided she wanted to stay in a lux hotel, so we went to this other place, and then I was in your Tokyo bathroom! (well, the weird dream version of it). Too cool. This has nothing to do with this post, but I had to tell you - I had this incredible Tokyo dream last night that I know is totally because of you. My friend and I went to this really inexpensive Tokyo hotel where the rooms were actually shelves cut out of a mountain. In another room, there was a huge wall of different kinds and sizes of silk pajamas, all hung up till they were out of sight on the wall. Oh, and we were late for a tea ceremony. But my friend decided she wanted to stay in a lux hotel, so we went to this other place, and then I was in your Tokyo bathroom! (well, the weird dream version of it). Too cool.

]]> By: Jordan http://www.jordansummers.com/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10379 Jordan Sat, 03 Mar 2007 18:36:50 +0000 http://208.73.34.214/~jordansu/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10379 Raine, I love eyes too. And mouths. Of course, I think kissing is one of the sexiest things on the planet that you can do. Raine, I love eyes too. And mouths. Of course, I think kissing is one of the sexiest things on the planet that you can do.

]]> By: Jordan http://www.jordansummers.com/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10378 Jordan Sat, 03 Mar 2007 18:35:28 +0000 http://208.73.34.214/~jordansu/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10378 Charli, The sense of humor seems to be a common thread with everyone. :) Charli, The sense of humor seems to be a common thread with everyone. :)

]]> By: Jordan http://www.jordansummers.com/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10377 Jordan Sat, 03 Mar 2007 18:34:41 +0000 http://208.73.34.214/~jordansu/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10377 Vivi, I understand. There are several actors that I think are handsome, but very few hit me on a viseral level. Strangely, Daniel Craig did and he's actually not a handsome guy. I also like tall men, mainly because I want to be able to wear heels. *ggg* Vivi, I understand. There are several actors that I think are handsome, but very few hit me on a viseral level. Strangely, Daniel Craig did and he’s actually not a handsome guy. I also like tall men, mainly because I want to be able to wear heels. *ggg*

]]> By: Jordan http://www.jordansummers.com/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10376 Jordan Sat, 03 Mar 2007 18:31:37 +0000 http://208.73.34.214/~jordansu/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10376 Bernard, I hear you. :) Bernard, I hear you. :)

]]> By: Jordan http://www.jordansummers.com/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10375 Jordan Sat, 03 Mar 2007 18:30:47 +0000 http://208.73.34.214/~jordansu/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10375 Jaq, I've liked and dated all different types too. For the longest time I was drawn to people more confident and talented than I am. I guess I thought it would rub off. *ggg* That changed with my last boyfriend. I decided I wanted something completely different. I threw all my preconceived notions about what I was and was not attracted to out. I definitely go for the intelligent funny men. Probably why I married my husband. He's scary smart and constantly makes me laugh, which I think is the sexiest thing ever. Jaq, I’ve liked and dated all different types too. For the longest time I was drawn to people more confident and talented than I am. I guess I thought it would rub off. *ggg* That changed with my last boyfriend. I decided I wanted something completely different. I threw all my preconceived notions about what I was and was not attracted to out. I definitely go for the intelligent funny men. Probably why I married my husband. He’s scary smart and constantly makes me laugh, which I think is the sexiest thing ever.

]]> By: raine http://www.jordansummers.com/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10374 raine Sat, 03 Mar 2007 05:24:19 +0000 http://208.73.34.214/~jordansu/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10374 Maybe it's some kind of chemical reaction or something, lol. I've met gorgeous men who did nothing for me--and other men who'll send a shiver of attraction down my back, and my friends would say, "you like HIM?!"<p>I like beautiful eyes, a charming smile, dry wit. He should be smart (which may have nothing to do with his level of education, btw). Strong arms, nice hands, chest hair are attractive. Not loud or boisterous (BIG turn off), and must not take himself, or life, too seriously.</p>Have I been attracted to men who had none of these attributes?<p>You betcha. Go figure. ;-)</p> Maybe it’s some kind of chemical reaction or something, lol. I’ve met gorgeous men who did nothing for me–and other men who’ll send a shiver of attraction down my back, and my friends would say, “you like HIM?!”

I like beautiful eyes, a charming smile, dry wit. He should be smart (which may have nothing to do with his level of education, btw). Strong arms, nice hands, chest hair are attractive. Not loud or boisterous (BIG turn off), and must not take himself, or life, too seriously.

Have I been attracted to men who had none of these attributes?

You betcha. Go figure. ;-)

]]> By: Charli http://www.jordansummers.com/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10373 Charli Sat, 03 Mar 2007 01:21:50 +0000 http://208.73.34.214/~jordansu/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10373 Yep. World of difference between "handsome" and "does it for me". The things that most attract me to my husband have very little to do with looks and much more to do with character. And sense of humor. And the fact that he thinks I'm a brilliant writer and a great person. *g* Of course, his big shoulders, cleft chin, leather jacket and Harley did not hurt the impression he made on me at all... Yep. World of difference between “handsome” and “does it for me”. The things that most attract me to my husband have very little to do with looks and much more to do with character. And sense of humor. And the fact that he thinks I’m a brilliant writer and a great person. *g* Of course, his big shoulders, cleft chin, leather jacket and Harley did not hurt the impression he made on me at all…

]]> By: Vivi Anna http://www.jordansummers.com/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10372 Vivi Anna Fri, 02 Mar 2007 14:56:21 +0000 http://208.73.34.214/~jordansu/2007/03/01/attraction/#comment-10372 I hear you Jordan. They are two different things. Take Brad Pitt for example....he's very attractive...but I feel nothing looking at him. Zilch. Not even a small flutter. But Joaquin Phoenix or Viggo Mortensen and I'm zinging big time. Sometimes its painful just looking at them and never being able to touch. LOL <br> <br> There was this beautiful Japanese man that used to come into the bookstore I worked at. My God, he was angelic looking, yet I felt nothing. But I saw this other Asian man in the bank, he was stunning too, and oh yeah, I felt the flutters. It's weird but I think it does come down to subconscious natural preferences. For example tall men make me flutter...they don't have to even be that physically attractive, but being around a tall man does something to me inside and sends signals to my brain that in turn releases pheromones and I'm attracted. Same with a man that can make me laugh...do you notice comedians dont' need to be attractive to get hot women. It's because laughing again releases something inside our bodies and we flutter...LOL I hear you Jordan. They are two different things. Take Brad Pitt for example….he’s very attractive…but I feel nothing looking at him. Zilch. Not even a small flutter. But Joaquin Phoenix or Viggo Mortensen and I’m zinging big time. Sometimes its painful just looking at them and never being able to touch. LOL

There was this beautiful Japanese man that used to come into the bookstore I worked at. My God, he was angelic looking, yet I felt nothing. But I saw this other Asian man in the bank, he was stunning too, and oh yeah, I felt the flutters. It’s weird but I think it does come down to subconscious natural preferences. For example tall men make me flutter…they don’t have to even be that physically attractive, but being around a tall man does something to me inside and sends signals to my brain that in turn releases pheromones and I’m attracted. Same with a man that can make me laugh…do you notice comedians dont’ need to be attractive to get hot women. It’s because laughing again releases something inside our bodies and we flutter…LOL

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